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Letting Go, with Love!

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Isn’t it odd, that when the time is right, the Universe sends you the one message you need to hear on any given day? I found that to be true, today. This is Saturday morning, late September, and I’d slept in. I’d just finished my coffee so thought I’d empty the dishwasher. That load had been waiting several days already. Yeah, yeah, yeah. We’re busy people. Don’t judge, okay? Okay.

The bottom rack has the utensil basket and I always start with that, then move on to everything else. With all the hardware back in their slots and bins, I noticed a three inch long piece of masking tape, edges curled and crisp from age, in the bottom of the utility basket. The tape had finally come loose from a pie server that had belonged to my mother.

Mom had been a second grade school teacher for 32 years, played the organ every Sunday at mass, and sang at many weddings in our little community. It was her habit to mark stuff when taking a pot luck dish to the numerous events, and over the years, I got used to having my last name on the back or bottom of most everything we owned.

"Giddy-up, Grandma!" Many years ago, my sons and my mom. Great memories!

“Giddy-up, Grandma!”
Many years ago, my sons and my mom.
Great memories!

Mom passed away eight years ago and, like everyone else who’s suffered a similar loss, I’ve missed her every day. I’ve since incorporated many of her kitchen items into my own, but that one pie server is the only item that refused to let loose of the pesky label. Who knew that masking tape was that strong? I’d dug my fingernail into the ends of the tape, run the thing through the dishwasher numerous times, and it’s never let go. Until today.

Tears filled my eyes as I saw that bit of tape—with my maiden name inscribed in my mom’s unique handwriting—at the bottom of that basket. It was like mom was hugging me from Heaven. Of all the days in the year, she picked this one day to let me know she’s never truly gone away. You see, today is my birthday.

Thanks Mom, I love you, too!

SMP ad in BTS eZine!

 

Sept. 2014 issue of BTS Book Review eMag featuring 10 SMP authors!

Sept. 2014 issue of BTS Book Review eMag featuring 10 SMP authors!

Very impressive AD layout from my publisher, includes me and 9 other authors. Check this out in the September issue of BTS Book Review Magazine!

Click HERE to read the eZine.

4-Star Review for my Book Birthday!

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THE 25th HOUR Released on 8/27/14

THE 25th HOUR
Released on 8/27/13.

It’s my Book Birthday, and just in time for the big celebration, InD’tale Magazine’s September 2014 issue gave me a 4-Star review. Yea! THE 25th HOUR released on August 27, 2013. Check it out. You can read the review HERE.

RWA14 – J’s recap

Melanie Pikor, highlighting the Converse, Texas, road sign.

Melanie Pikor and the Converse, Texas, exit sign!

J Logo 75Melanie – WHC, and Converse, Texas:
I arrived in San Antonio a couple days early, thanks to hitching a ride with an online critique partner who just happened to be working in the Houston area the week before the RWA14 conference. You gotta know I jumped at the chance for three hours of one-on-one with the awesome Melanie Pikor. Shortest trip ever, thanks to sharing writing, promotion, and publishing ideas—not to mention a bit of Lalala reminiscing. When we passed a road sign noting “Woman Hollering Creek”, the giggles never stopped. Melanie could have written ten different books based on that phrase, alone. And THEN she saw the exit sign for Converse, Texas. Yup, stopped and took pictures, but this is Texas and if you’ve pulled off the side of the road, I guarantee, a nice fellow will stop to lend aid. Cool Dude pulled in beside us, off in the fairly flat ditch, and made sure we were okay. Sweet guy! Ask Melanie about that sign, or WHC, next time you see her!

Kicking off "Flat Jan" week at RWA14: that's the Marriott Riverwalk Hotel sign you see between the two Jan's. It sure looks small from the 28th floor. :)

Kicking off “Flat Jan” week at RWA14: that’s the Marriott Riverwalk Hotel sign you see between the two Jan’s. It sure looks small from the 28th floor. 🙂

Flat Jan:
My very good friend, Janet Nash, was unable to attend the conference this year. She’d registered, like most of us, back in January. Temporarily sidelined by a surgical procedure a week before the conference, she had to cancel. Undaunted, she made her own version of Flat Stanley for a couple of her friends. I know of at least three Flat Jan signs floating around RWA14, and it’s amazing how many times Flat Jan turned up. Jan, herself, might have missed this year’s conference, but Flat Jan sure had a good time! Fingers crossed that next year she’ll be there in person. Love you, Jan!

Enjoying the huge suite: Arlene Hittle, Melanie Pikor, Mary Behre, and Ashlyn Macnamara.

Enjoying the huge suite: Arlene Hittle, Melanie Pikor, Mary Behre, and Ashlyn Macnamara.

The Upgrade:
We arrived in San Antonio when the Fertilizer Convention was in full swing at our hotel. Talk about “raining men!” Well, long story short, within three days, I’d checked into four different rooms. Nothing bad, just a logistics thing. To summarize, I’m tipping my hat to Marriott Rivercenter Hotel Manager, Toby, for making our stay the best, ever. We ended up in an oversized king-sized suite. Seriously, the suite was huge. My roommies and I , Mary Behre and Wendy La Capra, really appreciated the extra space. Perfect H.E.A.!

Sylvia Garza, Patty Murnin, and me.

Sylvia Garza, Patty Murnin, and me.

The Book Signing Event:
It was an honor and a huge thrill to be signing my debut novel, THE 25th HOUR, published by Soul Mate Publishing at RWA14’s “Readers for Life” Literacy Autographing on Wednesday, July 23rd. A few members of my husband’s family were able to attend, and they wandered the rows of tables, awed at the grand assembly of published authors. They’ve always supported my writing, and are notably proud of my achievements, but they said that seeing the massive crowd, in person, really put my writing life into perspective. And, getting to meet a few of my fans—in person—was one of the highlights of the conference. Thank you, everyone, for your continued support!

Me and good friend, Kathryn Jane. She brought me silk Lilacs all the way from Canada! (Can't get them this far south.)

Me, and good friend, Kathryn Jane. She brought me silk Lilacs all the way from Canada! (Needed for book signings, and I can’t get them this far south.) So thoughtful!

Lilacs!
This is Kathryn Jane, my super-sweet friend who lives up in Canada. Check out her books, her BLOG, and FB page. She’s one of my go-to gals for all things horse related. Trust me, she knows horses. Well, a while back, I’d mentioned on FB that I couldn’t find any Lilac silk flowers anywhere in Houston. Since they don’t grow this far south, apparently the retail trade believes we don’t need to have the sillk version, either. Well, I’m from South Dakota where Lilacs thrive. I love them so much, they’re in my story and they’re on the cover of my book. How could I have a book signing without a few Lilac sprigs to decorate my table? Argh! The ever-so-lovely Kathryn Jane said she’d bring me some when she came down for RWA14. She never forgot, and they arrived in pristine condition. I’m blown away by her thoughtfulness. She’s true-blue. Bless her!

SMP authors, me and Rebecca Heflin. She said she wore the wrong boot. LOL!

SMP authors, me and Rebecca Heflin. She said she wore the wrong boot. LOL!

$hopping: handbags, boots, and books!
What’s a road trip without a little shopping excursion, planned or spur-of-the-moment? If you know me at all, you know I’m the last to hit the mall. And, everywhere we went, there were books galore. Love that! Well, San Antonio knew what they were doing when the built a mall that was actually connected to our hotel. You betcha, I trekked through it several times…and dropped a few $$$ in my wake. Did I mention, books? Brought over 25 of them home. Yea! The first time I went to the mall was to walk with my roommate, Wendy La Capra. Walked out of the mall with a nifty new handbag. Another great find was my blinged-out boots. Won’t be wearing these anywhere near a horse or corrals, but they’ve got book signing events written all over them. I’m thrilled with my purchases, and such great deals! Totally worth driving in from Houston more often. [[waggle$ eyebrow$]]

Soul Mate Publishing table at RWA14 Trade Show

Soul Mate Publishing table at RWA14 Trade Show

The Trade Show:
RWA sponsored a vendor trade show, first time ever, and Soul Mate Publishing was there. A huge crowd spilled into the room when they opened the doors, and we stayed busy all afternoon. We had SWAG, free books, and a video for all to enjoy. Four SMP editors were on hand to visit with attendees, answer questions, and take pitches: publisher and senior editor, Debby Gilbert; and editors, Char Chaffin, Cheryl Yeko, and me, Janet Clementz. (Yeah, that’s my real name.) There was plenty of space to mix and mingle, and tasty refreshments in the center of the room made for an enjoyable afternoon. Truthfully, we were so busy, I didn’t get a chance to check out the other vendors. Good job, RWA!

Friends of Jan Nash: Beppie Harrison (holding Flat Jan), me, and Ruth Kenjura.

Friends of Jan Nash: Beppie Harrison (holding Flat Jan), me, and Ruth Kenjura.

 

Wish I was there!

Wish I was there!

NWHRWA:
Long time chapter member, Ruth Kenjura, is known for having her annual “Wine, Cheese, and Chocolate Party” during one evening of the conference. You never know who’s going to show up, and it’s always great fun. The first time I attended, I lost my voice due to laughing so much. I do my best to make it every year, but sometimes I just can’t, and this year it happened again. <sigh> Here’s a little of what I missed. Next year, I vow to be there!

Back row, L-R: Kristal Hollis, Lynn Cahoon, Mary Behre, Amanda Sumner, Melanie Pikor, Valerie Bowman, Jaye Garland, Jodi Vaughn, Alison Atwater, and Maura Troy. Sitting, L-R: Virginia Lee Boylan, Wendy LaCapra (behind VLB), Arlene Hittle, Ashlyn Macnamara, Beppie Harrison, Kathleen Bittner Roth, and KC Klein (behind KBR).

The Lalalas 7-26-14, standing L-R: Kristal Hollis, Lynn Cahoon, Mary Behre, Amanda Sumner, Melanie Pikor, Valerie Bowman, Jaye Garland, Jodi Vaughn, Alison Atwater, and Maura Troy. Sitting L-R: Virginia Lee Boylan, Wendy LaCapra (behind VLB), Arlene Hittle, Ashlyn Macnamara, Beppie Harrison, Kathleen Bittner Roth, and KC Klein (behind KBR).

L-R: Amanda Sumner, Mary Behre, Virginia Lee Boylan, Lynn Cahoon, Barbara Bettis, Arlene Hittle, Kristal Hollis, KC Klein, Jaye Garland, Maura Troy, Kathleen Bittner Roth, Beppie Harrison, Dina Danna, Wendy LaCapra, Marian Pearson Stevens, and Jodi Vaughn.

The Lalalas, 7-24-14, L-R: Amanda Sumner, Mary Behre, Virginia Lee Boylan, Lynn Cahoon, Barbara Bettis, Arlene Hittle, Kristal Hollis, KC Klein, Jaye Garland, Maura Troy, Kathleen Bittner Roth, Beppie Harrison, Dina Danna, Wendy LaCapra, Marian Pearson Stevens, and Jodi Vaughn.

Bill Board and Recipes for J's Release, and LaLaLa Mojito!

Billboard and Recipes for J’s Release, and LaLaLa Mojito!

Johnny Kimball, creator of my special mixed drink,  J's Release, in honor of publishing my first novel.

Johnny Kimball, creator of my special mixed drink, J’s Release, in honor of publishing my first novel.

The Lalalas: I’m thrilled to be among this powerhouse online critique group. Our members live all across the country and throughout the world. Since we rarely get to see each other in-person, except for our national conferences, this year we made a special point to gather on a couple different dates and times. Due to our individual schedules, you know, like editor/agent meetings and such, it was impossible to get everyone who was in attendance into one photograph. And, check out the drink menu. That’s my special drink, “J’s Release” featured on the billboard, and was created just for me by Johnny Kimball, a bartender in Nashville, in honor of publishing my first book. Click on the two pictures to expand the photos and see all the members. Between the two, we’ve captured most of the members who attended RWA14.

With this much networking, awesome workshops, and conference fun, you know we’re all looking forward to RWA15. Look out NYC, here we come!

HUGE Book Signing Event!

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Yup, my name’s on the list! I’ll be at RWA’s 2014 “Readers for Life” Literacy Autographing. 

If you’re anywhere near the San Antonio area this coming week, I hope you stop by this annual event. It’s sponsored by Romance Writers of America, and I’ll be signing my debut novel, THE 25th HOUR. This is a mega book signing with hundreds of your favorite romance authors. I hope to see you there!

Follow this link for more details.  Here are the deets:

Wednesday, July 23, 2014
5:30 – 7:30 pm
Marriott Rivercenter Hotel
3rd Floor Ballroom
101 Bowie St.
San Antonio, TX 78205

Y’all come!

In the Year 2044 . . .

Goals Vision Mission CUBEIt’s June, the sixth month of the year. Time to review the 2014 Goals y’all made at the beginning of the year. But, let’s take things a little further. Project yourself into the future, let’s say about 20 or 30 years from now. Ah! That makes it a bit more interesting. So, what would your Author Bio look like, two or three decades from now?

Why wait? Write that bio, now, but have a little fun with it. Go ahead. I double-dog-dare you! Just to show I’m willing to put it out there, too, here’s mine in the form of a news bulletin. But, if you know anything about me, you’ll already know to insert tongue firmly in cheek before reading.

GOALS-014 June 2044

Houston (AP)  Jaye Garland, founder of Star Quest Industries, an innovative publications and distribution corporation, recently acquired Global Cybernetics. Ms. Garland championed authors’ rights her entire career, and this merger is a predestined marriage too long in the making. Readers around the world will now have immediate access to their favorite genres, and all formats will be readily available to each of the buyer’s devices. Ms. Garland is best known for her New Adult Romance serials which took electronic media by storm.

If my faux bio stirs your blood, even a little bit, to take a gander at your current accomplishments, and then play that against where you’d really like to be [[could be!]] in several years’ time, then my job here is done. Thanks for playing!